The Book

"What do you want to be when you grow up?" It's a question we often hear in our society. But focusing on being something implies there's a final destination—a fixed identity we’re expected to achieve. If we fall short of this imagined goal, it can feel like failure.

When your career becomes synonymous with your identity, it’s easy to fall into patterns of people-pleasing, overworking, and constantly trying to prove yourself. This often comes at the expense of your health and relationships, as you strive to avoid the sting of perceived failure.

But here's the truth: landing a new job or earning a promotion won’t automatically bring you fulfilment or happiness. It won’t solve the deeper issue at play. Yet, most career development books fail to address this.

Intentional Careers for STEM Women takes a different approach. Instead of focusing on what you want to be, it guides you towards navigating a compelling vision for your life and career. This shift requires you to continuously update, expand, and refine your sense of self.

The more tightly you anchor your identity to your career, the harder it becomes to see the signs that it may no longer align with who you truly are. By loosening that grip, you open yourself to growth, authenticity, and lasting satisfaction.